Daag Acche hai!!! One must have..... to grow positively....

Hello there, Hope you all are doing good. Today's topic may be something different!!! I wrote about positive mind set techniques, doing nothing (meditation)  ...... Now  it's time to enjoy other emotions too.. What I feel those who are motivational speakers, talking about positivity, or showing encouraging behavior they tested negative sides, depression... So called dark side of ones life.. Which is perfectly fine to know ourselves completely , whole .....These days I am on and off with my emotions  and gave it a name emotional turbulence. Yes!! I am  in that stage where I am questioning every aspect of spirituality and life and situations.. I mean I noticed before knowing anything about it I am more peaceful, ambitious  , etc  etc...  Now  knowing very little about it made me more chaotic where i am feeling it is like Chakra vuyah! Where once u enter and one by one unknown becomes known  ..... and all of a sudden u want to come out of it to lead a normal life...again!now you are more aware about your life, more conscious about your surroundings ...

When there is darkness then only we can see the light, search for the light, embrace the light, showing our  gratitude towards it.... Even those are the times when we ourselves realize our full potential.... With all the trials and errors, acceptance ,etc which leads  to  growth !!




There is one of my friend who is completely surrounded with negativity!! Father in law, sis in law against her,  Co sis is very slow to match her frequency .... Bcoz of brother parents are living a problematic life ,  Having kids , managing home etc etc... Initially she was very much irritated , angry about her situations  and keep on blaming and in victim mood... She came to know about alternative healing modalities, doing yoga  meditation  regularly..... but at present she hold every everything!! And simply looking on her dark side and experiencing each and every emotion.... I realized this made her strong to see the situations as it is and to choose what exactly she wants rather escaping... simply looking at our situations , experiencing every bit of it.... We know where we are heading, for how long do we have to hold on with which emotion and  how does it feels.... Yes!! Feelings never lies.... Feel each and every emotion so very deeply so that we become more and more clear,  aware and free to  choose our choices consciousely .

When we are surrounded with only and only positivity, definitely we are growing and to that surely towards correct path, seeing lights  everywhere ....... And all it feels excellent!! No one wants struggles, chaotic life, but what will you do if you are into such situations.... I learnt few things from my friends life...

1)Gaze to your problems and  feel every part of it.

2)once you are clear about choices go for it. Do not take much opinions.

3)Love some or the other things in life, have that passion and be grateful for your blessings.

4)your focus matters!

5)In difficult  situations, during facing dark emotions we have more choices to choose and grow  :)

Now that friend restarted her life with full swing... With fresh perspective !!

I am  so very happy for her... Keep growing!

Thanks to my readers.




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